Tuesday, 04 September 2007

  • Stress, what causes it and why does it get worse as you become an adult?

    Now that I have teen children I remember back to my wonderful teen years!!  I was on the go from the time I got up until the time I went to bed.  I always enjoyed being on the go, having a full schedule!!  So now why is it so much tougher on me now that I am an adult with a family ?? And DON'T SAY it is because I'm old!!   I wonder if my problem is I let the added responsibilities of a household get to me? When I'm on the run all the time the house doesn't get cleaned (even though I have wonderful children that help me do most of it) and the meals don't get cooked (I'm working on that one with my wonderful children) and the laundry doesn't get done!!  I am learning to take "One Day At A Time" although if you don't schedule your month out in advance, things don't get done or you schedule more than you can do in a day.  I think if I had a maid and chef to take care of the cleaning and the cooking (I don't mind doing the laundry) then I would not feel as much stress!! But since I know that won't ever happen, I need to learn to be more organized and not feel guilty if everything doesn't get done on the day I think it should get done!!

Comments (15)

  • The_Cranston
    I know stress..... Speeches to write books to read...... Okay maybe I made that up but I didn't have anything to say......
  • Homeschoolmomx3
    Sorry Cranston, that's my point...  enjoy life now even if you think it is stressful, life is much easier when you are younger and you won't probably figure this out until you are much much older.  I was trying to figure out a way to explain it, but to tell you the truth, I can't figure it out either!!
  • anonymous

    Well...I won't call you old, but I AM old....yes, I know we are the same age, LOL, but some of us handle aging better than others. I think that I have a lot more stress now, of a different kind than I had when I was younger, AND I don't handle stress as well now. Dirty clothes and dishes stress me out more now than they did when I was younger. I hate for things to pile up.

    Something else I hate is always feeling like I am in a hurry. I should never feel this way. I have more time than most people to accomplish tasks, but I always feel like I don't have enough time.

  • IAMNOTAHOBBIT

    My mother admits to being old. ...older. Same difference. I'm hungry. Whats for dinner?  I'M KIDDING!!!! I'll just be leaving now. *sprints away*

    ~Oh Pink One

  • Homeschoolmomx3

    Ahem "Oh Pink One" it was Fairlight that said SHE was old!!! I just said I was older than a teen!!! hmph!!!

    Mom of oh pink one that will doing dishes by herself for the next month if she doesn't behave herself!!! hehehe

  • IAMNOTAHOBBIT

    Yes, I agree.  You should start behaving.  Now do your chores before you have to do them all by yourself. 

    It helps to read over comments before you submit.

    ~Oh Pink One Whose Mother Enjoys Punishing Herself

    PS Yes, I knew what you meant.

  • Homeschoolmomx3

    Well, oh pink one, let me put it another way.... YOU OH PINK ONE will be doing dishes for the next month if you keep it up! LOL

    I did not put comma's in so it's hard to tell who I meant, but I meant YOU Oh pink one!!

  • IAMNOTAHOBBIT
  • gas_man
    I like the late night online conversation going on under the same roof. I do wonder if anyone was really doing any chores at that hour.
  • Homeschoolmomx3

    Who said the chores had to be done that night? LOL  oh and don't forget, this is the family that IM's each other under the same roof too! hehehe

      hmmmm.... maybe part of my stress is my dc going to bed way too late... much later than they should have been!!  sigh... it's hard to make children of a night owl get to bed early!!  

  • The_Cranston
    Night time is the best time to be on the computer but it'll be a lot nicer once I get a laptop so I can be in my room and still Xanga........
    The_Cranston
  • bkyoungfamily

    Hello.....I am not sure which I will enjoy more......reading your posts......or your comments, lol!!! 

    Have a great weekend~Karen

  • Homeschoolmomx3

    LOL Karen,

    Join on in... the more the  merrier!!

  • The_Cranston
  • The_Cranston
    Updating is a great way to relieve stress.....
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